Thursday, February 19, 2009

the house of the broken mirrors

I was roaming, searching for an address
searching for some one,
everyday knocking doors,
someone who has the touchstone
to convert my iron ring into that of gold.

Someday I came across an address
a house which looked familiar
and i knew i had found it,
but could not find anyone there
no one there , but mirrors.
I broke the glass and moved out.

I was roaming, searching for an address
searching for some one,
everyday knocking doors,
someone who has the touchstone
to convert my iron ring into that of gold.

Yesterday i woke up with a lot of pain,
I noticed a cut on my finger
took out the crystals of glass from the cut
and a droplet of blood fell on the ring,
the ring of Gold.

V.S

p.s- references:- tagore & bijit ;)

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

random

I think that most of the people that I have seen don’t like judge mental people around them, like most of them don’t want to be judged , same is true with me as well. Generally if I judge a person the differences between me and that person grows and finally I land up aggreviating our differences than increasing the compatibility. Well I think the process of judging should not be applicable to a human being as one human can not judge another person correctly as he is jaundiced vision due to his experiences and prejudices . One creature might have grown in different set of conditions as compared to the other hence leading to the difference of persona and preferences.

The tendency to judge people is generally motivated in me due to the lack of compatibility with them which in turn leads to aggrandization of the problem. Not most people want to hear what anyone finds wrong in them as they feel they are totally correct in their approach which is justified by the learning done by their brains over a period of time from a set of mutually exclusive events which generally differs for each person. The difference in these independent set of events in ones life forms the basis for the compatibility between the two people.

I think the correlation between the set of mutually independent experiences in ones life and the other person is the principle condition of formation of a group or in more vernacular terms friendship. The more similar the set of mutually exclusive events are the more is the compatibility between the people. Once the people with similar sets come in contact there events sets become even more correlated and with increasing time grows the similar learning events hence with time grows the compatibility . Well this growth of compatibility is strictly regulated by the judge mental sense of the person, which is the noticing of the difference between the two sets.

If this sense is highly regulated it can result in the growth of very high compatibility on the other hand if unregulated this inhibits the formation of groups. Hence the more time you give and the degree to which the sense of judging the differences is regulated highly decides the formation of groups among humans.